Hate to split it to you personally sis, but he’s a white individual who is continuing to grow up in western society therefore he can’t help but be racist/prejudiced/biased etc. It’s steeped in the fabric of y our culture. We as black colored females have crazy altered thoughts it, so he’s certainly not going to be immune about ourselves because of. Does not mean individuals can’t modification and grow when they would you like to. Simply means, i believe you really need to just just take a few of the stress away from yourself to find some perfect racially impartial man that is white. He can most likely 1 day say/think/feel/communicate something which rubs you the incorrect means, this might be the opportunity, perhaps perhaps not a explanation to bolt.
Ideally, he’ll be open to using a discussion about this. Share just how it made you feel and then observe he responds.